When do we determine that is MsHD's work to do?

I thought everyone here has already determined all of her work for her???

A bit facetious I know but I feel I read much more about what Ms HD MUST do in this relationship in which HD is the one with the problem. I thought the biggest lesson about DBing was to focus on yourself partly to distract yourself, partly to fix your own issues, partly to relieve stress from the spouse so they can look at themselves without a spotlight, etc.

Last edited by fearless; 03/20/07 06:29 PM.


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