In my opinion, HD can wallow, deny, grumble, growl, yell in frustration, placate his wife, and dig 6 foot deep holes in his back yard to deal with his anger,
I agree HD has been doing this. It has been useless to fixing the problem, his wife is more frustrated than ever AND is has been detrimental to HD in the process.
My opinion about what he can do different does not seem to register here but that is okay. I am okay with him taking options #3 and 4 if that is what he must and if he is fully prepared for the results. I was proposing an OPTION #5.
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but he will never move his relationship one single inch until he forces it into an unbalanced state.
This i don't understand. His relationship looks pretty darn unbalanced to me right now.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
