Quote: -------------------------------------------------------- HD, To be clear, I would not ADVISE it from my POV. (and I am not sure that NOP actually does either) I am just saying that you can choose to escalate to that final win/lose position IF you really want to do that. NOP would be the one to contact for specific info. --------------------------------------------------------
I do advise it. HD and wife are entrenched in their relationship. The same was true of mine.
In my opinion, HD can wallow, deny, grumble, growl, yell in frustration, placate his wife, and dig 6 foot deep holes in his back yard to deal with his anger, but he will never move his relationship one single inch until he forces it into an unbalanced state.
The problem here is that HD either doesn't fully recognize the extent of his predicament, or he is unable to muster the fortitude to do something about it. Make no mistake about it, MrsHD has PLANTED the ball in his court. The next volley is his.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
