Here are the options I would propose, or something to this effect:
1. W is to learn to have sex and work on not gritting her teeth. Arrange a mutually agreed upon schedule steadily decreasing “grinds” over xx period of months. 2. Go to joint counseling and bare both our souls to uncover our real need for love from each other and desires to be loved back 3. In our own mutually agreed upon weekly meeting schedule, work to bare both our souls to uncover our real need for love from each other and desires to be loved back 4. Let W suggest ways to grow the relationship, encourage EC, intimacy and vulnerability.
