My options seem to be: 1. Keep quiet, never bring this up again, and stay in this marriage,albeit unhappily. 2. #1, plus, take a lover and suffer the guilt that accompanies that, but stay in the marriage. 3. Take you up on your offer in your last email to have sex with you while you "grit" your teeth. 4. End the marriage.
Hd with all my heart I beg that you do not take #3 you are worth so much more than someone just tolerating your penis inside them, she is offering you the worst kind of sex possible.
