I know we aren't strapped for cash but at the same time, the money he is spending is mine too and that just ticks me off. He also, unilaterally, went out and bought a restored Jeep (to the tune of $12,000 - not the mention about $3,000 worth of work it will needed done to it immediately) and here I am working 5-days a weeks and he works 2-3. What gives? When confronted about it he said, "ya sometimes I don't think" - no friggin kidding?
You are not the one needing the 2x4 in your M. Sounds to me like you may need to set some boundaries. "ya sometimes I don't think", well here's something to think about and POWWWW!! right up side the head with a big stick.
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I just feel like sometimes I am in a world where no one cares what the hell I do, think or otherwise. I'm just here to be the chief cook and bottle washer (ya ya, I know, pity party) but geez, I do have opinions, hopes, dreams, desires etc. etc. too
That's no pity party sweatheart, that's about YOU gaining your life back. I'm not sure how you go about it, but I think your H needs a fire lit under his behind. Maybe you've been a doormat for too long and it's time to STAND! Kick ?ss and take names! Maybe you need to move on with YOUR life, enjoy the things YOU want to do. That does'nt mean D, that just means take good care of YOU!
Time to shake things up a little Heywyre!
God Bless,
COG
Last edited by COG; 03/20/0705:36 PM.
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Maybe you need to move on with YOUR life, enjoy the things YOU want to do. That does'nt mean D, that just means take good care of YOU! 
