Hi, Hairdog.

If you want to take the next step in the escalation (and make no mistake, you will either escalate to win the marriage or escalate to lose it), then you have to ask yourself this; Am I able to have sex with a woman that is mad at me?

If you think you can do that, then accept the "just sex" option.

It may be the only method that can force the both of you into a new phase of relational understanding. Trust me, I can assure you that having "just sex" will dredge up the real core issues in the marriage. You just have to be ready to immediately address whatever comes up, all while standing your ground.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.