((((NM)))) Moving an hour away isn't going to fix his boundary issues. And, an hour isn't going to mean much at all if he decides to latch onto you. Nothing you do will fix his boundary issues. Instead, you need to fix your own boundary issues. YOU had him as a GUEST in your home every night you lived in your own apartment. You SHARE your bed in your house in the woods. And so on, blah blah blah...
Anything from a lawyer yet?
If you are just moving an hour away, can you drive the kids to school?