Your husband desires a clean house. While you don't. Well, can't you control your feelings to change your attitude so that maybe you will love to start cleaning?
Good question. But a little confusing. I think my feelings on the housecleaning issue are based on my belief/attitude that "He will take care of it eventually." When I was separated, I was amazed at myself and how much I cleaned. Had to do it all myself then and I did. Now that we are back together, I have slacked off again on my part. So yes, if I REALLY wanted to, I could control my thoughts and feelings on this issue. But I am still CHOOSING to slack off because well, it's easier? Lame but honest. I know this is still an area that needs work in my M.
When I was separated, I was amazed at myself and how much I cleaned. Had to do it all myself then and I did. Now that we are back together, I have slacked off again on my part. 
So yes, if I REALLY wanted to, I could control my thoughts and feelings on this issue. But I am still CHOOSING to slack off because well, it's easier? Lame but honest. I know this is still an area that needs work in my M.
