I thought you would say I was delusional for thinking OSU would make it to the Championship game after that close call with Xavier!!
***Why is it that, after two, three, four years of me doing everything/anything to try to show her how much I love her, that she can so easily deflect my wants/needs?***
Come on HD, look at this question. This is the KEY. What IS the answer? Could it be that you were doing any and everything but what she needed? Don't take that personal; she may not have known what she needed any more that you did.
Early in the relationship, we did have some pretty good sex. She seemed to enjoy it, she initiated it some of the time, and although she seemed pretty conservative in her sexual repertoire (compared to my ex, and to some girlfriends), it didn't seem to be a problem at the time.
So her "feminist" views are not ingrained and innate to her. Something else has been happening. Look back to the above question.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus