LFL wrote: "So we have no control over our feelings? "
Yup, we don't.
As a therapist, you don't know that?
I'm not going to get into a debate over the semantics of change and control but I think I've already made it clear that I believe you can CHANGE your feelings. The word CONTROL implies suppression or some other negative defense. That is not what I am referring to. But if it makes you FEEL better to be right then ok, your right, I'm wrong.
