Huh? So we have no control over our feelings?

Right.

We can't change our attitudes and thoughts to put ourselves in a better emotional place?

Being in a better emotional place is not the same as having control over our feelings. Trying to control your feelings, rather than simply accepting them for what they are, is a good path toward compulsion.

Well I guess cognitive theory is wrong then.

Is it possible?

And when I said "should" it's quite obvious I meant typical loving traits such as respect, understanding, blah blah. Those are a given in most people's definitions of a loving M.

You seem to be taking a lot of things personally today.


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