Yes, there was an OM. You can read the whole lovely story if you follow the link to my sitch in my sig.
Some of the biggest lessons for me were: - Both parties ALWAYS contributed to where you are today - Rebuilding the R starts with friendship - Lots of time and patience are essential - Snooping always backfires - Focus on yourself and GAL - Trust and forgiveness are gifts you give yourself
Of course, that completely oversimplifies everything...
It may be an oversimplicification to a degree, but still they are the basics. I am printing these out and posting them in my journal. When we were out in Boston, Swashy said something to me that really hit home. I think this was at dinner when we tried to talk to you on the phone but it was impossible to hear anything. Scott said that those are in piecing, like you and Jen, are the ones that have stuck to the basics. I took that to heart and hope to 'meet' you in piecing one day.
Me: 41 H: 42 Married: 13Y, together 24 Kids: S11, S9, D6 Bomb: 7/11/06, now piecing