This is where I think both of them are probably part of this issue.I admit that I am part of this issue. My threads are full of my admissions of fault. I'm just trying to figure out why I continue to put forth great effort on a daily basis to show her I love her in the ways she has clearly indicated to me, in spite of any faults she has, while my faults continue to be used as excuses by her to not put forth anything more than the most nominal of efforts? Of course her extreme views on sex and men are an issue. This just screams to me as someone whose is not comfortable with being a woman. Has MsHD always had this extreme hatred and disdain for sex in their relationship? If not, then there are probably other issues where HD can help.Early in the relationship, we did have some pretty good sex. She seemed to enjoy it, she initiated it some of the time, and although she seemed pretty conservative in her sexual repertoire (compared to my ex, and to some girlfriends), it didn't seem to be a problem at the time. And I made it quite clear that I enjoyed it and that I wanted to continue doing it.
