The actual problem is that MsHD utterly invalidates HD's desire for sex. This is exactly the same as telling him how he should or shouldn't feel.
BINGO.
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She believes she understands his sexuality better than he does.
Yes. And my fault-ridden personal philosophy, etc.
Also, with regards to how I come across to her, it's kind of peculiar, but I just spoke to her on the phone and we had a laugh about something going on with DD5. It really is like these email conversations are going on between two other people, at times.
The deal is, I really do enjoy being with her most of the time, and make no secret of that. We make each other laugh. We like similar things (food, entertainment, politics) and we both genuinely care for our DD5. There's plenty of good stuff here.