Choco, see my last post. How can you say HD is loving and respectful after knowing full well that he has been on this board for YEARS saying some very unloving things about his W? I'm not saying she is not a ball buster, but he needs to stop being passive-aggressive and step up to the plate. He seems to be doing that more now but it is still coming from a place of strong dislike for her. If he could gain some empathy and respect for her again, I think his M would have a chance of working. And she'd probably sense that at home and be more willing to have sex. But holding on to the anger is not going to get him anywhere but D court.
