IMHO, it does seem that the bigger issue is that you are not getting something you want from your W and that that issue makes you doubt how your W feels about you.
This is part of what I think you are feeling
I don't believe this is the actual problem. The actual problem is that MsHD utterly invalidates HD's desire for sex. This is exactly the same as telling him how he should or shouldn't feel.
She tells him that his desire/want/need for sex isn't legitimate and therefore it's not an issue she needs to address. She doesn't believe there's value in negotiating, compromising or discussing because she doesn't believe there's a problem, except in his mind.
She believes she understands his sexuality better than he does.
(edited to add...) KU still sucks.
Last edited by Burgbud; 03/20/0703:29 PM.
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