I just don't understand why any of us would think that with the type of interactions and quite brutal words exchanged between them (gritting teeth etc)that it would be even possible at this point to start making love.
I would challenge you to find anything remotely brutal about any of the words I've exchanged with her. While I agree that "making love" is not possible right now, this has always been about me letting her know what I want and why I want it. Her flailings are her reactions to my calm statements - and they are entirely her responsibility.
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How about working on the resentments and lack of respect for each other first?
That's what were getting at, don't you think? Do I expect to "make love" anytime soon? No. This is the crucible. This is where the hard work happens.
