See, that's what I mean. If he's keeping a scoreboard of what he does for her vs what she does for him, how is his "giving in her LL" any different than her "just doing it" for him? He's said in the past that he's not interested in her just doing it, that he needs to feel desire from her. Let's say her LL is acts of service. If he is doing acts of service, is he coming across as doing them quid pro quo, or are they really coming across as expressions of love? I'll bet they are coming across no different than her just doing it is coming across to him.
