Have you read anything I've written in the few weeks I've been posting? I've said several times that I "knew" on a logical level that my H was unhappy. But, I still didn't "get" it.
I also said that my H was not able to come right out and tell me. He was in so much pain that he was avoiding me and not really talking to me. He would be sarcastic and that just put me off further. He didn't sit down and look me in the eyes and talk to me about how he felt. If I hadn't started lurking here, we'd still be doing our dance, most likely.
I believe that Cemar has never told his wife how he FEELS.
ETA: I was just as unhappy as my H. I wasn't getting loved in my LL, either. This is probably the case with Cemar's W too.
