my other two options I feel would be to: 1. Pretend I don't know and continue on with db'ing 2. Find an apt. and move out...tell the om's wife....and let her see the consequences of her and his actions....she has said that she doesn't know if she doesn't want me to leave because she still loves me or is just used to me being around...has said that she probably wouldn't know that till I was gone