I was able to go out with friends immediately after work and not get home till she was asleep. I haven't said anything yet, but am still confused as to what to do. I have read Divorce Busting. She told me a little while ago, in what I consider one of her rare honest moments, that she knew that she could'nt ask me to wait on her, but that she wished that she could. I think I will tell her that I know that it is still going on, but that I still love her and will wait as long as my heart allows.