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But thank you again for the "reminder to stay focused on my goals". You calmed me down and helped me see further down the road.

I am sooooooooooooo glad to hear this.
I dunno where he stands.... he still may need time and yes they eat up the BS like it is chocolate cake. Afterwhile though I would have to believe that real love and feelings feel much better than some BS thrown his way. What do you think?
You keep working on you and the stronger you get the clearer your mind will be.
You will be able to see even further down the road. All my best to you ,, you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for. ;\)
I do remember this :
I ASKED MY H the DAY I found out @ her...WHAT IS SO ATTRACTIVE @ HER? AND HIS REPLY WAS ~

SHE MAKES ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF. Pretty simple huh?

SO AFTER THAT REVELATION (AND I TRULY THOUGHT SAVING MY MARRAIGE REQUIRED A MIRACLE OF GOD BTW.. he told me he would never change his mind ) I MADE MINI GOALS OF WHAT I COULD DO TO MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD ABOUT HIMSELF TOO
And that for me was very hard. I had forgotten how to be that because I was so caught up in taking care of everyone but me and our Marriage. I had forgotten how important and fragile we were.
Actually I thought loving him would fill him up.
But I was wrong ~
soooooooooooooooooooooooooo I made goals and worked towards them and little by little when they worked I was amazed and tried harder. And like you are doing right now I am sure.. alot of time while I was doing this and he would still talk to OW .

I swallowed my pride some and became real humble and knew that Miracles did not happen overnite nor did they happen with anger and resentment involved.
At the same time I had respect for myself and made sure he knew it too.
All my best to you~
You are doing well~
Keep working on you~
.... and Most important of all keep faith that Miracles can Happen with alot of hard work. Get to work Cissy ;\)

Take care and God bless...