I kind of see this current chapter as standing up against a bully. There comes a time when it's enough! You'll not stand for anymore. That's the message I wanted to get across this weekend. "I'm a man, I want you, I'll never quit romancing you, so it's time to let go and play along". I was pretty bold. Called her on some things. Like one morning she came into the bedroom in a towel, grabbed her clothes and headed back to the bathroom. I stopped her and said, "and you can stop wearing that towel like a scared little girl, and start being naked when you want to be". Now that's a VERY bold statement out of me. Two years ago that would have had long standing negative repercussions. But this time her answer was "OK".

Well she has'nt dropped the towel yet, but she will, oh yes, she will! The most important thing is that she did'nt hold a grudge about it, did'nt treat me like a pervert, or a controlling jerk. She knows I'm right, and it's got her wondering. She wants to have the "feelings" again so that's my focus. I think this current direction might get us one step closer to that.

I'm gonna keep working hard at the romance, flirting, etc. Subtle, fun, creative, and a variety of things. I bought some of her favorite candy and put it under her pillow for tonight. All ideas are welcome.

I'm gonna be like that bag of french fries in the car on the way home. I should'nt eat those, but they smell so good, don't eat them, don't eat them; well maybe just one........

God Bless,

COG


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