Nicola,

I have just had a chance to catch up with you. I am so sorry about the issues you are dealing with now. You helped me so much when I was first here and I hate that your husband doesn't see what a wonderful woman you have become(always were). Like has been said by quite a few posters the choice is yours but I would def. protect myself financially. The ow really Nicola we both know she is a bandaid and you should try to not think about her as much as possible unless it is to say a prayer for her- She will need it.

I will be praying for you and your family

I do think often about you and I know this is so hard now

Love,
Lisa


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12