OC - I certainly do feel for you. Sometimes I wish my H would just move out to see what it's like away from his family. He did talk about it right after telling me about the A but now he won't go.. he's too comfortable. H has also talked about being alone and not even sure that OW is for him. It's so darn strange, isnt' it?? I really do think leaving shakes things up and at least makes them see things differently, don't you?