So what is it that people want to know that I have not expressed before? I have touched on so many things.
CeMar, You have GOT to be joking with that statement. I've lost track of how many times you have been asked specifically these questions (I'm sure others can throw some other questions in here as well):
1. What are YOU doing to change things? 2. What are YOU doing to work on YOU? Reading books only applies as an answer if you actually apply any of the concepts and don't just read the book.
Those are the top two questions that I can think of that I have seen asked of you repeatedly on here...that you NEVER answer. You don't even touch on them....you only focus on HER, never YOU.
MrsCac4 has pretty well summed up my thoughts in her comment to you as well
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No, desire isn't something one can ask for. It is something that happens when one is desirable. I would advise that you stop laying all the blame for your SSM on your wife. Doing that just makes you even more undesirable.
She's spot-on about this, YOU apparently have no idea how you appear in a woman's eyes....much less in your own wife's eyes. You REALLY need to take a good close look at your own behaviors.
