Do our Xh/h know that we love them and will take them back even if we don't tell them?
While I have been AWFUL about not contacting my Xh during this past year, I have been very good about not talking about he and I getting back together, telling him I loved him, or talking about our past relationship. I have been very good about saying that I understand, when he tells me we aren't getting back together (he has only said this once), I didn't respond to him when he sent me an e-mail telling me that despite what he has said in the past, he did love me, still does and probably always will. When he asked about why I didn't say anything about it, I just told him I appreciated it and I felt the same way, but there wasn't a conversation needed about it. As you can tell from my above post we did briefly discuss our relationship, but I kept it short and didn't push.
Now I just worry that with us no talking that I have missed the chance to tell him that I do love him and that if he ever changes his mind I would be open to working on a new relationship with him.
