I said this is understandable because she is probably in Love with you!!! (gag gag gag).
You are toooooooooooooooooooooo funny.Are you "sitting down " CISSY? LOL... MY H told me one day when he was at the tail end of still talking to her.. I think YOU ( me his wife of 10 years and mother of his 3 beautiful kids!) ARE OBSESSED WITH ME.
Surely something OW may have put in his head! Or he was just really off the deep end.... ScaRy!!! OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHH MMMMMMMMMMYYYYYYYYYYY goodness that day I had all I could do not to strangle him....
If he is really in this ,, which it does seem like he is. ..... then little by little he will see how unreasonable his R with her was and still is. She will dig herself in deep on her own.... as she is grasping at anything to get him to stick around... Sad really if you think about it. Hang in there honey it gets worse before it gets better just hold on somemore and keep smiling even though you want to GAG..
Keep working on you... you can do this. God bless...