Raising sexually healthy daughters

[Crazy Eddie]

As a father, I want to do whatever I can to minimize the chance that my daughter (or my son-in-law) will end up in the same fix that many of the posters on this board suffer through. I want my daughter to grow up to enjoy sex and share a close and happy marriage with the father of my grandchildren, but not do anything stupid between now and then.

The basic message I want to get across goes something like this: "Sex is a truly wonderful thing. Unfortunately, in this society, you'll have to spend the next several years without the rights or the education needed to care for a child properly, to recognize and choose a suitable marriage partner, or to be a suitable marriage partner, and just about everyone that's allowed to touch you is going to generally act like an idiot because they don't have any rights or education either and thus have no real reason to act any differently. So you'll have to be damn careful and your best bet is to hold out as much as you can possibly stand to. But after you get your rights and your education and you find that special someone, an important way to keep each other happy and keep your marriage strong is to ML like rabbits. Enjoy yourselves. Don't go into the bedroom with a big (metaphorical) stick up your a$$; relax and get into it and experiment and have fun. Don't be afraid to tell each other how it is for you so you can each learn how to make the other happy and keep each other happy. Make time to be alone together and enjoy each other even when you're busy. And for the love of God please don't take even the slightest chance on making a baby with a stupid person; there's already too many idiots in the world."

But after reading through this thread, I get the impression that coming out and saying all of this might be inappropriate and might give her all kinds of weird mental blocks about the whole subject, which is the exact opposite of what I want.

So the women here are invited to comment on what their parents did, or could have done, that would have given them a healthy attitude toward what should be everyone's favorite contact sport.