The whole desire thing is so incredibly complicated. Do we all want to be desired, probably. Can we ask for it, probably not. But what is a relationship without desire? It is a relationship that carries no value. So that is the catch-22. Us HD's are supposed to ASK for what we want, but the faact that we have to ASK for what we want means the LD person has ALREADY failed.
Can a man be happy without a lover? Yes. But compared to the happiness of having a lover, it is not even close.
