Easy COG, slow and steady wins the race. This isn't a sprint to the first turn for position, you want her to stay with you the whole race, tease her the whole way, stay neck and neck, and on the final turn into the home stretch tighten up your reins a little and let her inch ahead and take the lead. IOW, don't expect immediate results, it might be days/weeks based on your history.
In my example, I flirted and teased H a little yesterday, it was this morning before he came to bed and we had some sexual PT. I have to let it be his final idea though or he creates miles of distance. So in the theory of alpha male vs alpha female, am I alpha by leading and showing him what I want but then back off to let him take over and be alpha? or is this referred to pursuit in the DB book? I get sooooo confused.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
