Thursday, SO stayed at hotel Friday, I left before he got home & went to his mom's before the snow came & I was trapped here. Sunday, came back, SO is in pain from a "hurt back". Had a concert to work last night; took a bag, figured he wasn't coming home.
Woke up this morning to no SO on air. Checked email and had a text from 11:49 last night saying he was going to ER, has glass in his eye from accident.
(I find this interesting. Yesterday, he was complaining he's out of painkillers, now a trip to hospital. Coincidence?)
Anyway, no word from him until 11 today texting that he's got an eye doctor appointment at 2. I reminded him he has a shrink appt at 12. He texted me to cancel it for him. I texted back with "Personally I think you should go to the appt. 555-1234 if you want to cancel." His response was "I cannot see or else I would go."
OK, now he's called. Said there's a shard of glass embedded in his eyelid and it started to come out and scratch his eyeball. And that he has an appointment with the eye surgeon at 2. Says he's staying in the hotel until tomorrow. Also remarked they gave him a shot of demerol at the ER. (OK, so I don't know whether to doubt how bad the eye is, but, jeez, conveniently timed to the running out of his painkillers. Jiminy crickets. )
I kept my tone neutral, answers brief. No questions, nor did I bring up shrink appt. I'm assuming someone is with him, as he indicated that his eye is patched and he can't see. So, someone has to be driving him to the appointment & back. But, I did not ask or even refer to it. None of my business. Neither is cancelling the psychiatrist appointment. As far as I'm concerned, I gave him the info & the number. It's up to him what he does with it.
This morning I also scheduled appointments with the lawyers. One, the Law guardian for the kids is meeting with them this Thursday and a tele-conference with the Custody/Support Lawyer on 3/27. This is all getting very confusing.
Also got a call from a friend - he spoke with someone who has an apartment for rent. I may go see it this weekend. I just don't know what to do. It being (almost) April, do I pull the kids out of school this close to the end of the year? Or, do I try to have SO removed from this house and stay until the end of the school year? At this point, I can't reside with him much longer. The whole situation has gone beyond difficult. Question I need to ask the lawyer, I suppose. It's the biggest one on my mind. What to do, what to do.
