25yrs,
Even if two-sides doesn't respond, I hope she will read what everyone has said here, and get some idea of how the families feel and what they go through when an intruder steps into a marriage. and that maybe more than anything will let her see that she needs to step back out of the situation she has allowed herself to get into. I just couldn't imagine that she has too many friends to confide in, because they are probably afraid she will go after their H's or BF's. I imagine the ow in my sitch has friends who are probably a little wary of her, if she has even told them my H is M. But for them not to tell her she is wrong, also tells you the quality of people she surrounds herself with.

Yall must have a lot of workshops put there, I think I have read about others you have attended, and I wish we had more here. I guess that is why I read so many books, instead. And the saying "broken agreements make messy lives" couldn't be more true. Boy do we ever see it in every post here.

I think I will go to your thread and post there and dig up my old thread started by InPain, or as she has been called lately InBliss.

L