New here - W unwilling to work on it

[30andLost]

I didn't have a specific question right now, but...

Since I'm dealing with love addiction, fear of abandonment, & co-dependence, my core issue (there are others) is control. Controlling my W through either manipulation, straight insults and put downs, whatever I could do to make her more dependent on me so that I could be reassured that I wasn't losing her or going to lose her, to the point where I suffocated her and denied her of knowing herself.

I've done a lot of work in therapy to remove my fear of abandonment and insecurities, and a lot of work in SLAA to remove my control issues. I am on the right path, but I need support from wise people that can help me to become the person that I want to be. You, I belive, are one of those wise people that can help me and guide me when my control issues and insecurities start to creep back in. What I was hoping for was to be able to get your phone number so that when I'm dealing with things that flare up and I need immediate support, you would be another resource for me to call to straighten me out and keep me on the straight and narrow.

That's all. I read all of your posts and you clearly have the knowledge that would be invaluable to me.

Thanks for your consideration,
B