Dragging me from the curb into Court..... AGAIN!

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Laughing,
You are such an amazing woman with all you have gone thru. I know how terribly it all hurts. I hold my breath every time I read your posts and the new turn of events that never seem to stop.

I just wanted to comment on the "brain injury" thot. My H had that from his 50 foot fall. Bruised brain. Talk about being a wacko. That was a most difficult time for me and the kids. No one could understand why he was acting so outrageously and being so mean when we weren't used to that at all. But at least we knew that it was brain injury. We also knew that he could have the chance of remaining that way for the rest of his life - only time would tell. Many times people end up divorced after such an accident because the personality change is more than one can bear.

10 years have gone by now. My H has mellowed over time - but admits that things are different since the accident......His short term memory isn't worth crap. I'm amazed he does so well on his own because he forgets so easily about things...sometimes even things we've done together during this separation he'll say "really? we did that? Oh, I guess we did, didn't we?"

So I think your questions are well-founded and very possibly the reason why things have gotten so much worse. Unfortunately.....there isn't a darn thing you can do about it. You can't even say anything to him about it. No one will listen to you on this one since no one diagnosed it that you know of. But it truly would explain so much. Just keep doing what you're doing and make sure you keep records of every little thing that transpires - in the end it'll make a difference.

I wish things would change for you. You have been here such a long time and have so uplifting to many of us. I'm sorry, Laughing, for all you have had to go thru. You have many hugs from me.........not that that's much to write home about......but you are truly in my thots and prayers. God bless you richly today.

brue