Do not get too excited about this. As Lis says slow and steady. GALing is just one of the steps in this for you, and many times the spouse is interested in the changes made.
Make sure that you make those changes for the only right reason, for you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
