Thanks for your responses. I really do appreciate it. We did go through MC but I really don't think that she put a full effort into it on her part. She is still seeing her C, and has been for a while. Mine told me right after she filed that he didn't understand why I was still seeing him. He told me she was the one with the issues. He was also our MC too.
At times I think it would be easier not being able to talk about such personal things. The way our relationship is now, takes me back to when we were happily married. At times, I sit there and wonder why we are not still married. Kind of funny yet sad at the same time.
Oh well, like suggested, just going to go with the flow and see what happens.
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids