Went out with H on Friday, of course conversation was about her and how great she was.
He told me something about work that someone was saying to her and prying her for info. - Well that was it for me!!! I asked him.. do you believe everything she says? Do you know this for a fact? I told him this guy has never been this unprofessional with me and asked him if he had been to him, no!!! I said... she is always starting sh*t! Every time you leave her!! She gets right in between us! I think she is full of it and I don't think Sean said this to her and/or she is adding onto or blowing it out of proportion! She is a little girl and she is immature and she is trying to start sh*t to get you back! I said this is understandable because she is probably in Love with you!!! (gag gag gag). I then said my blood was boiling, excused myself and went to the restroom.
When I came back, I apologized for getting so angry, but I said I was tired of these games she plays. "H said you hate her", I said you are right I don't like her one bit.. she hurt my children, she hurt me and she hurt too even though you don't realize it. I said she needs to respect all of us and back off! She need to respect your choice for coming home. I told him she needs to find her own family. He said he has told her that and that he has also told her he is not the one for her.
DUH! Is he just seeing that now. I told him I want to be happy and I do not play games like that and I am tired of her getting in the middle of us. I told him it is so frustrating just when I think we are getting closer she just jabs her wedge right in between us!
(Gee, I hope I did not say too much-I could not shup my mouth up-it was pouring out of me). I told him I do care about him and his feelings, though and I understand that he has feeling for her, but he shouldn't always give in to his feelings. He said he understands. He seemed mad and defensive at first but seemed to calm down and actually said that he believed me this time, but I said a whole bunch of other things and he said at the end he said he's got it now. Yea! then quit with her already!!!!! Venting again. phew.
