I can't get over how complicated this has gotten. Since OW's parents still love her husband, and continue to have contact with him, she's blaming him for her mother getting mad at her for having an affair!!!! She's threatening him with a D again. Poor guy. He's freaking out again. I've tried to explain displaced anger, etc. and maybe he hears 1/2 of what I say, I don't know.
My H hasn't returned my phone call about getting together to discuss the bills since I had to cancel with the flu. With all this "Jerry Springer" stuff going on, I am laying low. We aren't behind in any payments, so I'm OK with waiting. My H is the kind of guy who avoids any negative interaction with anybody, so I'm sure this isn't sitting well with him either.
I have no expectations with these latest developments. Things like this could push the two of them closer together, or it could help OW to wake up and see that she's pissed her kids off (they wont go see her if my H is there, they hate him) her parents don't approve, of course, and neither does her best friend who's renting her the house.
Danu
Everything happens for a reason, and through this journey I will learn many things about myself
