Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

It's been a good weekend. I had him clarify why he wants his alone time and it's not to make his choice her or me - he's done that he says. H wants to work on himself and make sure she's done with the contacting before coming home. I know I need to let him set the timeline - it's just hard seeing him leave for 'his place'.

I went out last nite for St. Pat's and had a good time despite it mostly being couples! They all took care of me... H said he knows they wanted him to come to - he's not ready for that yet... It's a slow process...baby steps...