Hi Everyone Been M for 23yrs to a very speical lady. ON Jan 22 she dropped the bomb in my lap. My situation is a little different because I work overseas and have for 11 yrs to provide my family with a great life. The D could be final in about 3 weeks because the W and I have agreed on most of our D issues. I know everyone going to ask why I'm still overseas and if I want to save my M go home, well I dont have anywhere to stay and dont have any money so I have no choice but to make it until end of 2007. Within the last two weeks I have felt a change in my W, because at first there was no contact and how she been calling every 2 days and we talk as if she never ask for a D and on the days she doesnt call she will email me on things she done since we last talked on the phone. She done this same thing back in 2001 but we worked it out. I still have hope and dont want to give up that little hope I still have stored in my heart. And the reason I still have that little hope is because of the little things she says when we talk on the phone. On Friday we were talking about my next vacation in April and when I told her I would be staying in a hotel while home she said she wanted me to stay at the house with her and the kids. She doesnt want me to move my stuff out of our home, she wants to keep the mortgage in our names and she asked for $1500 to help pay the bills while I'm overseas but she said when I come home at the end of 2007 I dont have to pay the extra $1500. Some of my friends say I'm a fool for thinking this but has anyone heard of a planned D. My oldest D tells me there has been a OM and when I asked the W about the OM she said that they are friends that there has been no PA. I think there was (is) a PA and she knows this would kill me if she told me the truth and thats why she want the D. Couple weeks ago while on the phone she told me that after the D is final that she wasnt ruling out we would be back together but for me not to wait on her. There is alot more to my situation but what do you think is going on from what I have said so far.
