heartbroken, i just reread your threads and you give me hope in my situation since it's quite similar to mine. i am so glad your hs wants to come back. It is good that he wants to end it with ow before coming home. To me, this shows he is thinking (not in the crazy state most men were in at one point or another). I would be careful about ow, let her do the pushing. she will only push him back to you.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?