Would it have made any difference if he had merely asked the question or pointed out the mileage without the attitude of anger toward you?
I don't think I would have been as angry. But annoyed because like I mentioned above this is supposed to be his responsibility and he doesn't have many.
Do you know why he was angry?
I think because he had helped out some the day before and was angry anything was asked of him. He works he feels he shouldn't have to slave in the home to. He has said this/ He also said the kid's should do a lot more. Then I point out I didn't have children to have them as little slaves. They have a ton of homework on many nights. As well as preparing for school that night.(showering, packing book bags, laying out clothes) It just really boils down I think to the fact that he feels this kind of work is not his place.
Were you angry at your H because he had not recognized how much you have on your plate and had not volunteered to help?
Yes, in a way I was. I mean he can see me never having anytime to myself. Always having something to do. It never enters his mind to help out the one person you are supposed to love and cherish.
Does your H know that you feel overloaded and need help or are you expecting him to read your mind?
