Nicola.. You have done so well though all of this. You have truly given your 100%.

H is looking out for him. He pretends to have moved on with his life but like you said, he is a coward that is not doing anything legally about it.

Have you seen an attorney? What are your legal rights in Canada?
H is angry with himself. This OW will not benefit from him, she will be hurt also. Maybe in the same way, maybe in a different way.

you have to stand for you and your kids just like you have been doing. What does your gut feeling tell you to do? Listen to it.

Neli


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Both: 33
Together 13y; Married 8y
Kids: DD8 and DS5
Separated: 08/31/06
D Filed: 2/21/07

my current story