Nicola.. You have done so well though all of this. You have truly given your 100%.
H is looking out for him. He pretends to have moved on with his life but like you said, he is a coward that is not doing anything legally about it.
Have you seen an attorney? What are your legal rights in Canada? H is angry with himself. This OW will not benefit from him, she will be hurt also. Maybe in the same way, maybe in a different way.
you have to stand for you and your kids just like you have been doing. What does your gut feeling tell you to do? Listen to it.
Neli
******************************* Both: 33 Together 13y; Married 8y Kids: DD8 and DS5 Separated: 08/31/06 D Filed: 2/21/07