From a womans point of view should I continue to pursue? or wait for her to make the next move?
I think you should back off a bit. Let her make the next move. You have done wonderful things. But all of it has been initiated by you. See how serious she is about this?
You say you don't have anything to loose at this point. Yes, you do. You have already broken it off with your BMW girlfriend and you also have you to loose over this. Better to find out now whether she wants to pursue you a bit or whether you are just there to fill her needs when she wants them filled.
You were in the drivers seat when this started, but it has shifted now.
good Luck. Neli
******************************* Both: 33 Together 13y; Married 8y Kids: DD8 and DS5 Separated: 08/31/06 D Filed: 2/21/07