Too far off the scale and you will look like a hooker and possibly scare away the one you want.
The one that I want won't be scared off because sometimes I dress like a hooker. The one that I want won't be scared off because sometimes I dress like an absent-minded librarian/gardener. The one that I want won't be scared off because I got 2370 on my GREs. The one that I want won't be scared off because I am generally kind, easy-going and openly affectionate. The one that I want won't be scared off because I am frequently provocative as hell. The one that I want won't be scared off because there probably isn't hardly a thing in the "Guide to Getting It On" that I am not willing or able to do. The one that I want won't be scared off because there are probably over 100 things in the "Guide to Getting it On" that I am bound and determined to do some day. The one that I want won't scare easy. As for all the rest, "Next!".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver