I think RCR did some posts on it. Search the web. Browse the book store aisle. It will give you something to get out of the house and do.
I will say that what I read on this from the web some time back concerned me. Some take the bottom line position that considering the scale of NPD, like on a one to five ... and the article used different terms for the degrees ... stay away.
The position was that NPD is not somethng you change, and they are no good to be around. I question such a strong take on any person or mental struggle. But the explanations and examples they gave certainly painted a very abusive life for the spouse of a NPD. Those M to one in the articles, said stay away, walk away ... no ... run.
I do hope your H is not truly a complete NPD. I say that accepting that we may all display traits of unpleasant conditions in our life at times. If any one of us were to see a C while we were out of sorts, I wonder what we would be diagnosed with ... right after the C read the latest publication of something.
I'm afraid of what the C would say about a celibate sex maniac sharing fantasies on the web with vulnerable women .... soaking in a warm bath, enjoying soft music and scented candles ....
