Stubborn.. I know that the family vaca is coming up and you are in my thoughts. PLAN on having a great time. PLAN on giving your D7 a vaca she will never forget. PLAN on leaving your stress and worries at home. Oh, and if S decides to 'show up' and have fun w/ you two wonderful ladies (you and D7), then great. But PLAN on not needing her to have your fun.
Just wanted to extend hugs and thoughts here. Hope it's a great day for you. Take care of you so you can take care of that bright girl of yours. You matter. You are wonderful. You deserve better. You do something nice for yourself today. Massage, anyone??