MJ, I agree with LFL ( again). Who cares what the guys on the board think of your outfit? Now is your time to experiment and have fun. Do what makes you feel good. Have a few laughs. My mom was showing me pictures of herself when she was young in these ridiculous outfits. She was saying, " I really thought I was the cat's meow" and we were hysterically giggling.
Here on the BB we are protective of you. Anyone who was monogamous for 18 years is going to be naive, no matter how wide a sexual bandwidth. So play it safe but have fun. And don't cause unnecessary hurt either.
I read an article some time ago about a man who was in a SSM and then divorced. He went through many relationships afterwards and eventually remarried. The article was his ode to the " in-between" women who helped to revive him.
Go reawaken yourself. Have fun. And take care. And yes, I still want details, lol.
